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I had my final ultrasound today (after getting rescheduled due to 1/2 an inch of snow on the grass friday) and the child continues to be exactly the size she's supposed to be and otherwise healthy-seeming. Apparently they can tell that's she was 7lbs 14oz this morning, and thus on track to be about 8lbs in time for her due date... although given that my counting date is this Thursday, the initial ultrasound date is a week from Wednesday, and today's ultrasound gives her a due date of the following Saturday, exactly what her due date actually is is anybody's guess. And as the tech mentioned, only about 5% of babies are actually born on their due dates, anyway. I'm guessing somewhere around the 17th or 18th, but I have no particular reason to think so; I don't expect they'll let her go past the 20th or so even if she'd like to. (My mother, for whom she's being named, was born on the 27th.)

Grauwulf's cousin, on the other hand, appears to have sired an elephant. His wife is due around the same time we are, and they've already scheduled her for a c-section on her due date as they're predicting the kid will be about 13 lbs by then. So far as I know, she hasn't been diagnosed with GD or anything else that's supposed to lead to oversized infants, and I have the obscure feeling that there's some kind of karmic changeling thing going on here. (This is also her third child, though, and the other two didn't have this problem.)

Meanwhile, the last-minute prep stuff continues; I have now got PUL fabric to make more waterproof diaper covers, and got accosted by a rabid manager at Babys R Us while in search of diaper pins. (He seemed to think I'll be in there all the time once the kid arrives. I'm fairly sure that once the kid arrives I'll be doing *less* wandering into random shops in search of things rather than more, but since what I actually wanted to do was buy diaper pins so I could go home and have lunch I didn't make a point of it.) I was also extravagant and parked in an "expectant mothers" space, since this is the first time I've seen one since getting pregnant and while I'm still perfectly capable of walking across a parking lot (and did so three other places this morning) at 38-1/2 weeks I think I'm as entitled as I'm going to get. I've definitely reached the point where strangers start trying to coddle me in public, though I find it somewhat less irritating to have people try to do things for me because I'm obviously pregnant than whatever "oh helpless female" reasons they usually have. Possibly also it helps that the people who've recently asked if I need help carrying things have all been female (ok, and grauwulf, but he's been doing that for a while, and does take no for an answer.) I did have to restrain myself from snapping at the socially clueless teen in Ikea who asked if she should push my cart for me (um, what?) but compared to my usual levels of annoyance at people who think it's being nice to interrupt me in the middle of doing things I am positively mellow.

Ikea and grauwulf and the hardware store have provided me with my last christmas present (we exchanged IOUs for large-ish things that we had to pick out ourselves-- grauwulf's was a new grill) and I have now got glamorous new desk surfaces in both the loft and the craft room, with vast quantities of drawers into which I haven't yet put anything at all. (ah, the potential!) And space to stuff quilts through my sewing machine without running into anything (now that I am almost out of quilts for the moment) and still a great deal of moving stuff about left to do. But eventually there *will* be room to move in the craft room, and maybe even sew baby clothes & stuff.

Date: 2013-02-06 12:31 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dragonvyxn.livejournal.com
ugh, i seriously disliked being helped, especially early on! my in-laws kept trying to carry stuff for me and i was like "i'm pregnant, not an invalid!" and it was a thing for a little bit because i didn't want help but they didn't know how else to engage with me due to the language barrier. i only let help really happen towards the end of things, probably about at the same stage you're at now, or around when my feet started to swell up! i went to farmer's markets the week i gave birth (40wks, 3days and 5days) to try and get labor continuing, too. it sounds to me like it would be rather annoying to have a due date and then be pressed to serve that by a doctors office. i hope it doesn't trouble you overmuch and i hope things go well!

ps - yay cloth diapers! they are super easy and way more fun than disposables. :-D

Date: 2013-02-06 02:19 am (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dragonvyxn.livejournal.com
pps - i had a very similar experience at our local babies r us. expectant mother parking, etc. (nowhere else has that as far as i can tell...) that store terrifies me. we still have a gift cert to there that i haven't used because i don't want to go in there... going to use it online, probably. (oh, wait, ikea has family parking, usually, but i've found it's always full.)

Date: 2013-02-06 08:51 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thanate.livejournal.com
Yeah, I've gotten things there on three occasions now because they were things that required a specialty shop, and am far less likely to go back having been accosted by someone. Also the fact that the guy I'd just asked for diaper pins was trying to convince me I'd be there all the time to buy formula indicates to me that he doesn't have a good handle on his demographics...

Date: 2013-02-06 09:03 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] thanate.livejournal.com
I've used the "not an invalid" line to grauwulf, who keeps trying to offer to do things like carry the laundry basket upstairs for me (instead of doing the things I actually can't do right now which I've asked him to take care of, sigh.)

Yeah, I get to negotiate for as much time as possible next week if she doesn't show up before then. We'll see how that goes. Admittedly, if I do have to schedule it'll mean that I can try to have my Dr there for the delivery rather than somebody I haven't met, but I'd still much rather let the kid pick her time (and ideally avoid being a "valentine's day baby.")

Date: 2013-02-08 11:43 pm (UTC)
From: [identity profile] dragonvyxn.livejournal.com
there's far too much pink going on this month for my tastes, that's for sure. my birthday is the 23rd and i was born a week late so i missed the pink-craziness that is the 14th. :-D

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